Make sure both people clearly want to have sex
Talk openly about boundaries, limits, and what you both want
Use protection to reduce the risk of pregnancy and STIs
Have condoms and lubricant ready
Choose a private, comfortable, and safe place
Go slowly and check in with each other often
Stop immediately if either person feels pain, fear, or changes their mind
Start with kissing, touching, and foreplay if you both want to
Use plenty of lubricant if needed
Be gentle and patient
Relax as much as possible
Communicate during the experience
Do not pressure yourself or your partner to perform
Clean up afterward
Consider STI testing if relevant
Seek medical help if there is severe pain, heavy bleeding, or a condom breaks and pregnancy or STI risk is a concern