Follow them if you haven’t already
Like a few recent posts naturally
Reply to a story with something specific
Send a simple, direct DM
Keep the first message short and casual
Mention something from their profile or story
Ask an easy question
Be respectful and friendly
Avoid copy-paste pickup lines
Don’t send multiple messages in a row
Give them time to reply
Keep the conversation light at first
Match their energy
Suggest continuing the chat if it goes well