Ask for her preferences, boundaries, and consent first
Communicate openly during intimacy
Focus on her comfort, relaxation, and arousal
Spend plenty of time on foreplay
Pay attention to what she responds to
Use clitoral stimulation if she enjoys it
Combine stimulation in ways she likes
Maintain a steady rhythm once she is close
Avoid rushing or changing too much when she is nearing orgasm
Encourage her to guide your touch
Use lubrication if needed
Check in respectfully if something seems off
Be patient and avoid pressure to orgasm
Respect that orgasm is not guaranteed every time