Recruit Shadowheart early and keep her in your party
Increase her approval by being kind, respectful, and supportive
Avoid openly cruel, selfish, or overly intrusive choices
Help her with her personal quest and listen to her concerns
Resolve the Nightsong situation in a way that aligns with her growth
Rest at camp often to trigger companion scenes
Choose dialogue options that are flirtatious or affectionate when available
During the Act 1 camp scene, accept her invitation to spend time together
Keep pursuing her romance options after the initial flirt scene
In Act 2, support her through the Shar-related decisions
In Act 3, continue choosing loyal and caring dialogue
Do not romance other companions if you want to stay committed to her
Make sure your approval stays high before key romance scenes
Choose the ending path that respects her values and relationship with you