Start with a warm greeting
Introduce yourself and your relationship to the groom
Thank the couple, families, and guests
Keep the opening short and confident
Share a few genuine stories about the groom
Include light humor that is kind and appropriate
Highlight the groom’s best qualities
Mention how the couple complements each other
Add a sincere compliment about the bride or partner
Keep the speech personal and heartfelt
Avoid embarrassing or offensive jokes
Avoid inside jokes that most guests will not understand
Keep it concise and well-paced
Practice the speech out loud before the wedding
Speak clearly and slowly
End with a meaningful toast to the couple