How To Write An Obituary?

Confirm you have the correct details (spelling of name, dates, and locations)

Start with the person’s full name, age, and date of death

Include birth date (and place if you want)

Mention hometown or where they lived most recently

Provide a brief summary of their life (key roles, careers, passions, and accomplishments)

List major survivors (spouse/partner, children, grandchildren, siblings, parents) with preferred names and relationships

List predeceased family members if desired

Include education history (schools, degrees, notable achievements) if relevant

Add career or service information (job titles, employers, military service, volunteer work)

Highlight community involvement, memberships, awards, hobbies, and interests

Mention faith or affiliations if appropriate and permitted by family

Include notable personal details (e.g., “loved gardening,” “known for kindness,” “family caregiver”) if you have space

Add information about funeral or memorial services (date, time, location)

Include visitation or viewing details if applicable

Provide burial or interment information if applicable

State whether services are open to the public or by invitation

Include details for memorial contributions (organization name, address or website, and how to donate)

Provide a charity or cause that reflects the person’s values if requested

Add information for condolences (email, website, or funeral home contact)

Use a respectful, clear tone and present tense for ongoing roles when appropriate (“she is survived by…”)

Keep sentences factual and accurate; avoid speculation or sensitive claims

Avoid sensitive personal disputes or unresolved issues

Proofread for accuracy, grammar, and consistency (names, dates, spellings)

Ask a family member to review before submitting

Include the funeral home or publishing service name and contact information if required

End with the sign-off line (optional) such as “In loving memory of…” or the family’s request for privacy if desired

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