Get clear, enthusiastic consent from everyone involved
Confirm the setting allows it and that all boundaries are agreed on first
Wear clothing that lets you move comfortably and safely
Keep movements slow, controlled, and deliberate
Use your hips, torso, and shoulders to create smooth motion
Maintain balance and avoid sudden or forceful movements
Stay aware of the other person’s comfort and body language
Keep physical contact within the agreed boundaries
Pause or stop immediately if anything feels uncomfortable
Keep the atmosphere respectful and non-pressuring
Avoid alcohol or substances that could impair judgment
Communicate openly before, during, and after
Respect a clear no at any time