Give it time before trying to be friends
Make sure the breakup is fully accepted by both people
Be honest about your motives
Set clear boundaries
Avoid flirting or mixed signals
Keep communication respectful and consistent
Do not use friendship to stay emotionally attached
Limit contact if feelings are still strong
Respect new relationships
Avoid discussing the breakup repeatedly
Do not expect the friendship to look like the old relationship
Meet in group settings at first if needed
Keep conversations balanced and appropriate
Be willing to step back if the friendship becomes unhealthy
Accept that friendship may not be possible for both people