Set clear, simple rules
Keep consequences immediate and consistent
Use calm, firm language
Get down to their eye level
Praise good behavior often
Redirect unwanted behavior quickly
Offer limited choices
Use short time-outs when needed
Follow through every time
Stay patient and avoid yelling
Model the behavior you want
Keep routines predictable
Remove privileges for repeated misbehavior
Use natural consequences when safe
Reinforce positive behavior more than negative behavior