Get clear, enthusiastic consent first
Ask what they like and what they do not like
Communicate during the moment with simple check-ins
Start slowly and build up gradually
Use plenty of saliva or a water-based lubricant if desired
Use your hands to vary pressure and reduce strain
Pay attention to the head, shaft, and sensitive areas
Change rhythm, speed, and pressure instead of staying repetitive
Use your lips to keep teeth from making contact
Relax your jaw and take breaks as needed
Match your partner’s reactions and adjust accordingly
Keep breathing comfortably and avoid overextending yourself
Stop immediately if anything hurts or feels wrong
Respect boundaries and safe-sex preferences
Maintain good oral hygiene and consider sexual health protection