Make sure both people want to have sex and feel comfortable
Talk openly about boundaries, expectations, and what you do not want
Choose a private, safe place where you will not be interrupted
Use protection to reduce the risk of pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections
Have condoms available and know how to use them correctly
Consider a backup birth control method if pregnancy prevention is important
Go slowly and check in with each other often
Use plenty of lubrication to reduce discomfort
Stop if anything hurts, feels wrong, or either person wants to stop
Pay attention to consent throughout the experience
Keep communication clear and honest
Be prepared for nervousness or awkwardness
Have a plan for cleaning up afterward
Get tested for sexually transmitted infections if appropriate
Seek medical advice if there is pain, bleeding, or any concern afterward