Communicate openly and get clear, enthusiastic consent first
Focus on what she enjoys rather than trying to force a specific outcome
Create a relaxed, private, comfortable setting
Use plenty of lubrication
Start with extended foreplay to build arousal
Pay attention to her breathing, sounds, and verbal feedback
Use gentle, consistent stimulation and adjust based on her response
Combine clitoral stimulation with internal stimulation if she likes that
Keep pressure and rhythm steady once she’s responding well
Encourage her to relax and not worry about performance
Stop immediately if she feels pain, discomfort, or wants to stop
Accept that squirting does not happen for everyone and is not required for pleasure