Focus on her comfort, consent, and communication throughout
Use plenty of foreplay and prioritize arousal
Ask what feels good and adjust based on her responses
Use the right type of stimulation for her (often clitoral stimulation)
Try gentle, consistent pressure and vary speed and intensity
Use lubrication to reduce friction and increase comfort
Consider external stimulation with fingers or a vibrator
Aim for stimulation that feels good to her, not a specific “goal”
Maintain eye contact and verbal check-ins if she’s receptive
Watch for cues she’s enjoying it and respond accordingly
Stop or slow down if she asks, tenses, or seems uncomfortable
Be patient; arousal and timing vary widely
Respect boundaries and avoid pressure to “make” anything happen