Get clear, enthusiastic consent from your partner before anything escalates
Make sure both people are comfortable and can stop at any time
Start with non-sexual affection like holding hands, cuddling, and forehead kisses
Use slow, gentle kissing to test comfort and response
Pay attention to their body language and adjust accordingly
Keep your movements gradual and responsive
If they lean in and reciprocate, continue; if they pull back, pause and check in
Keep good hygiene and avoid strong odors
Use a light touch with your hands, and avoid anything that feels too intense
Maintain eye contact briefly, then return to kissing
Communicate during and after with simple check-ins like “Is this okay?”
Aftercare: stay close, be respectful, and confirm they feel good about what happened
Stop immediately if either person seems uncomfortable, hesitant, or asks to stop