Ask for clear, enthusiastic consent first
Talk about what she likes, what feels good, and what she wants to avoid
Make sure privacy, comfort, and enough time are in place
Wash your hands and trim nails
Use a water-based lubricant if needed
Start with gentle touching and build slowly
Focus on arousal before direct genital contact
Pay attention to her verbal and nonverbal reactions
Use light pressure at first and adjust based on feedback
Stimulate the clitoris gently if she wants that
Vary rhythm, pressure, and motion based on her responses
Keep checking in with simple questions like “Do you like this?”
Stop or change anything that causes discomfort
Let her guide your hand if she wants to
Be patient and avoid rushing toward orgasm
Respect boundaries at all times
Stop immediately if she says no or seems unsure