Stop engaging immediately if the person seems deceptive
Do not send money, gifts, passwords, or personal documents
Save screenshots, messages, usernames, phone numbers, and profile links
Verify their identity with a live video call or other trusted method
Reverse image search their photos to check for stolen pictures
Check for inconsistencies in their story, location, or background
Set firm boundaries and ask direct questions
Block and report the account on the platform
Warn friends or family if they may also be targeted
Contact your bank or payment service if money was sent
Change passwords if you shared sensitive information
Report threats, blackmail, or fraud to law enforcement
End contact completely if the deception is confirmed