Ask for clear consent first
Agree on boundaries, limits, and any off-limits topics
Choose a private, uninterrupted time
Make sure both of you feel comfortable and relaxed
Start with flirtation and build gradually
Use a calm, confident tone
Describe what you want and what you’re imagining
Share what feels good in simple, direct language
Ask what the other person likes and wants
Keep checking in with each other
Respect any hesitation or change of mind immediately
Keep the conversation mutual, not one-sided
Use words that feel natural to both of you
Stay present and responsive to their reactions
End the call warmly and respectfully