Ensure consent and comfort before anything sexual
Communicate clearly about what feels good and what doesn’t
Use plenty of lubrication
Start slowly and build gradually
Maintain gentle, steady pressure
Use your hand to support and guide as needed
Use your mouth and lips with consistent rhythm
Vary pressure and speed based on their reactions
Take breaks when they need them and check in
Keep breathing easy and avoid gagging or forcing it
Focus on the head and the surrounding areas with your mouth and tongue
Use your tongue to make light, frequent contact
Use your hands for additional stimulation, not just mouth
Watch for cues and respond immediately
Avoid rushing to ejaculation; prioritize what they want
Ask what they like and adjust accordingly
Keep hygiene in mind and avoid brushing teeth right before if it bothers them
Use condoms or dental dams if desired or to reduce STI risk
Stop immediately if there is pain, discomfort, or numbness
Clean up afterward and check if they feel okay