Ensure consent and clear communication
Brush teeth, avoid strong odors, and consider trimming
Use a comfortable position for both partners
Use a condom or dental dam if desired
Start slowly and use gentle pressure
Keep your movements rhythmic and responsive to their feedback
Use your hand to help guide and vary pressure
Focus on the base and vary where you apply attention
Maintain eye contact or check in with verbal cues if appropriate
Pause periodically to swallow or breathe comfortably
If they ask you to stop, stop immediately
Stop if there’s pain, discomfort, or numbness
Afterward, wipe clean and offer water or a bathroom break if needed
Discuss boundaries and preferences for next time