Create a comfortable, relaxed environment
Prioritize her pleasure and communication
Use plenty of foreplay
Focus on direct, sustained stimulation of the area that feels best to her
Adjust pressure and speed based on her feedback
Experiment with different angles and positions
Use lubrication to reduce friction
Keep stimulation consistent and don’t rush
Encourage her to tell you what works (and what doesn’t)
Be patient and responsive to her arousal level
Consider using a vibrator or other external device if she prefers it
Avoid interrupting once she’s close
Maintain eye contact or verbal check-ins if she likes it
Stop if she asks you to stop or if she seems uncomfortable
