Ask for explicit consent and discuss boundaries first
Use clean hands and trimmed nails
Use plenty of lube or a water-based lubricant
Start gently and go slow
Keep stimulation comfortable and varied to preference
Avoid harsh pressure on sensitive areas
Stop immediately if there’s pain, discomfort, or refusal
Respect hygiene: avoid touching other body fluids, then switching to oral contact
Consider a dental dam or cut-open condom for safer oral sex
Avoid oral sex if you have sores, infections, or symptoms
Avoid oral sex if your partner has sores, infections, or symptoms
Communicate during and adjust based on feedback
Use breathing and pacing to stay comfortable for both
Clean up with water afterward if desired
Discuss contraception and STI testing before sexual activity