Watch for repeated lying, manipulation, and charm used to exploit others
Notice a lack of empathy, guilt, or remorse after hurting people
Pay attention to frequent blame-shifting and refusal to take responsibility
Look for impulsive, reckless, or consistently irresponsible behavior
Observe patterns of violating boundaries, rules, or social norms
Trust consistent actions over flattering words or promises
Set firm boundaries and enforce them consistently
Limit personal, financial, and emotional access
Avoid sharing sensitive information
Document incidents, messages, and agreements
Keep interactions brief, factual, and unemotional
Do not argue, justify, or overexplain
Seek support from trusted friends, family, or professionals
Prioritize safety if there is intimidation, stalking, or threats
End contact when possible and safe to do so
Contact authorities or legal help if there is abuse or danger