Smile and make brief eye contact
Say hello and introduce yourself
Ask a simple question about the situation
Comment on something you both notice
Use a light, friendly tone
Keep your first message short and easy to answer
Ask open-ended questions
Show genuine interest in his response
Mention a shared interest if you have one
Give a sincere compliment
Use his name if you know it
Keep the conversation balanced
Listen carefully and respond to what he says
Share a little about yourself
Avoid overly personal questions at first
End on a positive note if the conversation slows down