Ask for clear consent first
Talk about boundaries, preferences, and any off-limits areas
Wash your hands and trim/clean your nails
Make sure both of you are comfortable and relaxed
Start with kissing and touching to build arousal
Use gentle attention around the thighs, hips, and outer vulva first
Pay attention to her reactions and adjust to what she likes
Use your tongue softly and vary pressure, speed, and rhythm
Focus on the clitoris carefully and gently
Alternate between licking, sucking lightly, and using your tongue in different patterns
Keep communication open and ask what feels good
Use your hands to stimulate other areas if she wants that
Avoid too much pressure or roughness unless she explicitly wants it
Stop immediately if she asks you to stop or seems uncomfortable
Maintain hygiene and consider using a dental dam if preferred
Respect privacy and aftercare needs afterward