Ask him what words, tone, and topics turn him on
Start with simple compliments about his body, skills, or confidence
Use a low, slow, confident tone
Whisper in his ear when you are close to him
Tell him exactly what you want to do to him
Tell him exactly what you want him to do to you
Use direct, sexy phrases like “I want you” or “You feel so good”
Describe what you are feeling in the moment
Build anticipation with teasing comments
React verbally to what he is doing
Use his name to make it feel more personal
Keep your words natural and genuine
Match your language to his comfort level
Escalate slowly instead of jumping in too fast
Notice his reactions and adjust your tone
Keep it playful, confident, and consensual