Be clear about consent first
Keep it mutual and playful
Start with simple compliments
Use his name when you speak
Whisper what you want to do
Tell him what you like about him
Describe what you want him to do next
Use short, confident phrases
Match his reactions and comfort level
Ask what he likes hearing
Keep your tone teasing and flirty
Say what you’re thinking in the moment
Focus on desire and anticipation
Keep it respectful and consensual
Stop if he seems uncomfortable