Use a calm, soft voice
Speak slowly and consistently
Say the cat’s name gently
Blink slowly at the cat
Keep your body relaxed and nonthreatening
Let the cat approach you first
Respect the cat’s space and boundaries
Watch the cat’s ears, tail, and posture
Use short, simple phrases
Repeat familiar words in the same tone
Avoid loud noises and sudden movements
Offer a hand for the cat to sniff
Pet only if the cat seems receptive
Stop if the cat turns away or tenses up
Reward positive behavior with treats or affection
Match your energy to the cat’s mood
Be patient and consistent